Instead of believing that the world is plotting to do you harm, believe that the world is plotting to do you good!
Instead of seeing every difficulty as negative, see it for what it could be – Something that is meant to enrich you, to empower you or to advance your causes.
Imagine how much easier it would be to succeed in your life if you constantly expected the world to support you, and to bring you opportunity.
Successful people do just that, the vibrations of positive expectations that successful people give off, actually attract to them the very experiences that they expect to get.
Now obstacles are not seen as just another example of the world hates me, but as opportunities to grow and change and succeed.
If you develop for example an illness – the possibility exists that in the process of reorganizing your life to effect a cure, you will create a more healthy balance in your life, and you will rediscover what is important.
Was there a time in your life when something terrible happened that later became a blessing in disguise.
I love this quote by Napoleon Hill when he said ” Every negative event contains in it the seed or opportunity for greater benefit.”
So when something bad happens to you remember that everything bad that happens to you has the seed for an upside.
And rather than looking for a downside, ask yourself “what is the greater benefit of this event.”
Maybe you can think back in your life to something that happened to you where you thought the world would end.
You might have lost your job, your business might have tanked, you might have gotten a divorce or something like that.
But than later, you realise that it was actually a blessing in disguise.
The more you look for good, the sooner and more often that you will find it.
and if you take the attitude that it is coming, the less upset and discouragement you will get while waiting for it.
All the very successful people that i work with, enter every experience as an opportunity.
And they enter every conversation as an idea that something good will come from it.
And they know that what they seek and expect will come to them.
If you take this approach that good is not an accident, and that everyone and everything that shows up in your life, is there for a reason – then you will be able to see every event no matter how difficult or challenging as a chance for advancement in your life.
My mentor Jack Canfield loves to say
“I expect the world to show me good today – so i can’t wait to see what it is.”
So start looking for the opportunities and miracles in your life.